Daniela and Shaun share their thoughts and experiences around penis-in-vagina sex including what happens when pain and discomfort arise. They explore what happens when they don’t take advantage of spontaneous desire and why uncomfortable sex can be beneficial in the long term.
Hear Shaun say, “If you have this lofty expectation that sex will be better than the last time, or the same, it leads to disappointment” while Daniela says, “In order to get to pleasure,
sometimes you gotta travel the path of purification, which means you have to do some of the healing and some of the feeling around it not being super awesome every single time.” Listen as they discuss the path of purification and the path of pleasure and how deep healing is possible while honoring their boundaries.
Through Daniela and Shaun’s conversation, explore your own unspoken expectations of sex and what stories come up for you around sex. Consider what holds you back from being vulnerable in the bedroom and what you desire from sex with your partner.
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