You deserve to feel deeply loved in your relationship.
You can feel so safe inside your relationship.
You can co-create a sense of deep acceptance in your relationship.
You can experience a deeper connection
in your relationship.
Relationship coaching can take you beyond the ordinary world and into the realm of deep connection. It is personally tailored to your relationship to completely embolden your sex and deepen your intimacy no matter what you are experiencing now.
I have explored a variety of tools, techniques, resources, and practices from 17 years of teaching in college classrooms, in online universities, and in yoga studios alongside my studies at the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality and supporting relationships with people just like you.
With relationship coaching, your partner and you will be supported step-by-step through the most effective processes, practices, and exercises for co-creating a deep connection together.
With one-on-one support and accountability
in 90-minute online coaching sessions,
you’ll be invited to experience:
Erotic Intimacy and Sexuality
The tools you will learn through this coaching program will strengthen and deepen your love whether you’ve been together for two years or for 30.
Think of relationship coaching as the start of the next chapter of your relationship where you get to choose your own adventures in sex, intimacy, and in life.
In each session, you’ll learn more about your desires and your partner’s desires and feel just how deep they go.
They will challenge you, inspire you, excite you...
And bring you to the threshold of a new life you can co-create together that is both sexy and intimate while also being deeply healing and nourishing.
RELATIONSHIP COACHING IS FOR:
Couples with an already great relationship
who want to evolve their sexual experiences and deepen their connection to create an even more amazing life together.
Couples who want to heal
and are willing to access love and compassion around woundings to create a solid foundation for experiencing intimacy together in the long-run.
Couples who want to rekindle their relationship
and are in a long-term relationship or marriage where they have forgotten who they are and how to be together.
If you love your partner
and feel like you’re supposed to love your life,
and you’re ready to go on an adventure and explore:
Finding out what you really want and need
Deeply connecting in ways you never thought possible
Falling even more deeply in love
Finally letting go of what’s been holding you back all these years
Wild, fun and epic erotic experiences together
THEN RELATIONSHIP COACHING IS FOR YOU.
A happy, fulfilling relationship doesn’t just happen!
Take a MOMENT and think about this….
When you fell in love, did you ever imagine that one day you would be living a dull, flat and stagnant life?
…or be bogged down with obligations, responsibilities and commitments?
…or forget who you are, what you want and why you even want to be with your partner?
…or feel emotionally disconnected from your partner and sexually unfulfilled?
…or agree to couples counseling and date nights just to have some semblance of hope?
…or lose sight of those butterflies in your stomach?
Nope. No one imagines that.
And yet far too many couples believe
this is the life sentence for long term relationships.
The saddest part is when they just shrug their shoulders and say:
EXCEPT IT ISN'T TRUE.
What if sex and intimacy, just like your health or parenting, aren't just something you “let happen”?
What if instead there are ways to cultivate and nourish sex and intimacy that create a fun and inspired relationship?
What if the outcome has more to do with your willingness to make your relationship a regular focus rather than the last priority?
What if your relationship doesn't have to stay the same, but instead your life together deepens and becomes more rich so sex is wild and your connection is so strong that you want to be together ten, twenty, thirty years down the road?
What if home wasn't a third job filled with more expectations and chores, but a place to exhale and be supported around your deepest desires?
What if the bedroom wasn’t a place of performance and pressure, but a sanctuary for sharing your deepest expressions of love and sexuality with your partner?
Imagine a deep and intimate connection with your partner filled with the beauty of vulnerability.
Imagine leaving the pressure to perform behind and entering a space of spontaneity and relaxed erotic play.
Imagine feeling desire in your body and desiring your partner in a sensuous and sexual relationship.
Imagine a fulfilling life with a foundation of love and safety that's also filled with adventure and fun.
This is what relationship coaching is designed to offer you.
NO MORE TALK THERAPY.
NO MORE SCHEDULED SEX.
NO MORE UNINSPIRED DATE NIGHTS.
THIS IS YOU AND YOUR PARTNER
EMPOWERED TO CO-CREATE YOUR LIFE
TOWARD THE DEEPEST CONNECTION.
YOUR INVESTMENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
$230 / session
San Jose, CA
$300 / session
Nights or Weekends
Who Am I?
Hi, there! I am Daniela (she/her/hers pronouns).
For me, nothing is more important than connection.
With close to twenty years of experience teaching in college classrooms, yoga studios, and working with people one-one-one, I am here to support you in connecting with your inner wisdom, your body, and your partner.
For me, connection is where love and compassion meet, and it is the foundation for co-creating the relationship that meets your needs, heals your wounds, and fulfills your deepest desires.
Whether it’s clarity, improved communication, closer connection, profound healing, or an erotic intimacy and sexuality that makes you weak in the knees, you can experience epic together, and I will guide you there.
Answers to Your Most Common Questions
HOW MUCH TIME DO I NEED TO DEDICATE EACH WEEK?
Your commitment as a couple is for a 90-minute session each week (or every other week) in addition to time for home exercises and practices, which are usually about 15 minutes, 3-5 times per week.
WHAT IS INCLUDED?
Weekly Zoom calls or in-person sessions lasting 90 minutes each. Embodied exercises and practices from the fields of neuroscience, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom led within session. Individual email support between sessions so you also feel safe in between sessions. Curated exercises and practices for you to do each week on your own to deepen and integrate the work we’re doing in sessions. Firm accountability.
HOW IS COACHING DIFFERENT FROM THERAPY OR COUNSELING?
Therapy and counseling are a great fit for people who want to talk about their sex, love, and/or relationship problems and gain awareness of the problems themselves.
Coaching is more appropriate for people who are aware of the problem and are committed and ready to take action to get what they want instead.
The coaching I offer involves a wide variety of tools, practices, and techniques to get you results as quickly as possible.
DO YOU ONLY WORK WITH COUPLES IN COMMITTED RELATIONSHIPS?
No. I also work with people one-on-one to gain clarity on what they want from their relationships.
Along with dyads, I also work with people in open relationships, polyamorous relationships, and fluid or dynamic relationships. I will work with you to curate a coaching experience relevant for your relationship structure.
WHAT METHODS DO YOU USE?
I integrate contemporary coaching with neuroscience, trauma healing, modern psychology, and ancient Tantric and Taoist wisdom. I work with body awareness, breathwork, communication skills, modern coaching modalities, role-play, guided meditation, and emotional release exercises.
WHAT ARE YOUR QUALIFICATIONS?
I am a certified integrated sex, love and relationships coach with a specialization in relationships through the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. I continue my studies there pursuing additional specializations in Tantric sex, jade egg, and men's work. I also have a masters degree in communication studies with a focus on women’s studies and pedagogy. I have taught college classes and workshops at traditional and online colleges in areas such as public speaking, writing, interpersonal communication, small group communication, critical thinking, and argumentation. I am also a gentle, restorative, and yin yoga instructor. I have also studied with dozens of acupuncturists, chiropractors, yoga teachers, and educators in various disciplines.
IS THERE ANY KIND OF NUDITY OR WEIRD STUFF INVOLVED?
No. All sessions are fully clothed. We will discuss sex, love, and relationships and reference anatomy, but everyone will be clothed in each session. A few clients experience some discomfort with discussing these topics, and I invite you to share what you’re experiencing in every moment
People usually feel very comfortable talking with me, and that’s one of the biggest reasons I offer this work—to provide safe spaces for people to explore these topics.
WHERE DO YOU WORK FROM?
I work from my home office in Silicon Valley in the United States. Because we can connect via Zoom, I work with clients from all over the world.
WHAT IF I DON'T GET ANY BENEFITS AND WANT TO END OUR WORK RELATIONSHIP?
Working on sex, love, and relationships can trigger fear. Fear can influence our actions, and we may decide to do things that don’t contribute to growth. I am all about honesty, and I am happy to have a frank conversation with you to find out whether a desire to end our sessions is coming from a place of fear or because we’re simply not a good match.
And if you aren’t getting any benefits? If this happens, we can stop working together and explore options for a better fit.
DO YOU OFFER A FREE SESSION SO WE CAN SEE IF WE LIKE YOU?
I do offer a complimentary consultation. Keep in mind that taking your relationship from surviving to thriving takes time. The commitment and effort that comes with this journey has tremendous and life-changing effects on your sex, love, and relationships.
While you’ll have profound experiences in many individual sessions, long term integration and transformation doesn’t happen in just one session. With a commitment, you give yourself more time to move through vulnerability and challenges with support and accountability on your journey to being epic.